As a self-love coach, I encourage my clients to own what feels ‘alive’ for them (it’s often not what their logic tells them it is).

I started noticing a disconnect between the things we ‘convince ourselves we want’ and the lack of energy that eventually follows when we try to take action. 

That anaemic level of energy, was always telling us something… It was telling us the truth – the truth about what we actually care about, and what we actually want.

Oftentimes, it’s not something we can choose or fake. It just is.

Meanwhile, my own path as a coach started to feel confusing. There were too many things I was exploring, and too many directions I could move toward. I was spread thin.

But none of my options really tickled me inside.

 I had been dabbling with oracle cards and one day, I asked the universe to help me pick a lane.

This was the guidance that came: 

“Do not try to correct in the earth what needs to be corrected in the heavens. The resources to support the change or endeavour you are considering are not readily available to you yet, so it’s important to ask for help from the invisible realms, from helpers in the upper world. For now, wait.” 

It was pretty powerful. 

This nudged me to book an Akashic Records reading which I had been considering for months! 

It was through the reading, that I was first guided to explore energy work and specifically, to work with my hands – which was totally not on my radar, at all. 

Many more breadcrumbs later… and I ended up getting trained, and started practicing the Japanese ‘healing hands’ art of Reiki!